Why Your Girlfriend Isn't That Receptive To Foreplay Anymore

Why Your Girlfriend Isn’t That Receptive To Foreplay Anymore

One thing I’ve learned while extensively researching into the female sexuality is the need to mix things up when it comes to foreplay to always get your girlfriend ready for lovemaking when you get frisky in bed.

I know this sounds a bit odd, but you’ll find out more when you follow along…

Unlike what a lot of guys mistakenly think, women love sex as much as men. However, compared to guys who can get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat, women need a longer time to get ready for lovemaking.

And one of the key factors you should keep in mind to successfully pull it off is properly stimulating her erogenous zones like the clitoris, nipples, back of the neck and inner thighs. Unless you give these spots the attention they deserve, there is a very big possibility that your girlfriend won’t fully get in the mood for sex no matter how hard you try.

But it doesn’t mean that knowing which erogenous zones your girlfriend likes and how she prefers them to be stimulated already means that you’ll always get her in the mood for lovemaking each and every time.

As it turns out, you need to alternate which erogenous zones to focus on to really sexually arouse your girlfriend. Let me explain what I mean…

See, the pleasurable sensations that your girlfriend experiences when you stimulate her erogenous zones are caused by a hormonal reaction triggered by the brain, which release mood-altering hormones the moment you start licking, sucking or kissing her sexy spots.

As long as the brain thinks that she’s enjoying herself, the flow of mood-altering hormones won’t stop. Interestingly, the same hormones are also responsible for making her sexually aroused.

However, something happens to your girlfriend’s brain when you stimulate the same erogenous zones over and over again. Now while these erogenous zones can still trigger satisfying sensations when worked up, her brain won’t think they are as pleasurable as before because it becomes somewhat immune to the stimulation you’re giving.

Here’s a simple analogy that can help make you understand the whole thing better…

Say you like apple pie for dessert. Although having a bite or two of it from time to time is sure to excite your taste buds, imagine what happens if you eat apple pie just every time you have a meal. Wouldn’t it make this tasty treat rather boring and unappetizing?

Well, the same thing happens when you don’t mix things up during foreplay.

So if you’re looking to always fire up your girlfriend for lovemaking with your foreplay moves, keep in mind to stimulate different erogenous zones while at it to really get the job done. You’ll be very surprised with the results, too.

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