Why Grooming Can Easily Make The Difference In Dating
During my extensive research into the male psychology, I discovered one simple mistake that can easily ruin your chances of acing a date. And it’s not giving yourself the proper grooming it deserves.
I know this sounds a bit odd right now, but as it turns out, not paying close attention to your grooming can give your dating career a dry spell. And if it’s not already on your list of priorities when you’re going out with a woman, then you better follow along…
See, I found out during my research that if you’re looking to easily attract a woman on your next date, you’ve got to make her feel that you’re confident enough. Interestingly, I also learned that grooming has a significant effect to your confidence levels.
Let me explain what I mean…
If you’re anything like most men, chances are you probably think that a first date is one of the most nerve-wracking social activities that you will ever get yourself into. And now while a lot of guys may not readily admit this, you’re still going to feel nervous no matter how many first dates you’ve already been in.
Although feeling nervous does have a few positive effects when you’re on a first date, like helping you think more clearly and becoming more aware of your actions as you interact with the woman you’re out with, overdoing it is simply a different story.
Sure this may sound crazy, but getting too nervous stimulates the brain to produce and release excessive amounts of stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline that will just make you become extra anxious and jittery.
And when this happens, you will just end up making your date feel that you’re not confident even the least, which also means saying goodbye to your chances of attracting her anytime soon.
Now while there is no magic pill that makes you feel extra confident as soon as you swallow it, I learned a simple trick from my research that just might help you normalize the release of stress hormones when you’re on a first date.
And this trick is to pay close attention to your grooming.
This is because something happens inside your body when you do so. Making an effort to look and feel good like taking a shower, getting rid of a scruffy beard, brushing your teeth, trimming your nails, dressing well and shining your shoes does wonders for your outward appearance.
When you look and feel good, the brain stimulates the endocrine glands to let loose positive hormones like oxytocin, endorphin, serotonin and ghrelin that won’t just help perk you up, but bolster your confidence levels as well. Just imagine how you can use this to your advantage the next time you’re going on a first date.
So if you’re looking to really make a woman feel that you’re really confident (and boost your chances of attracting her while at it), keep in mind to have grooming as a priority in your dating checklist.