How Encouraging Words Can Make Her More Adventurous In Bed

How Encouraging Words Can Make Her More Adventurous In Bed

One very interesting thing I’ve learned over years of studying the secrets of becoming an unforgettable lover is that women can be rather timid when it comes to trying new things in the bedroom.

And if you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably wondered once or twice how you can make your lover push her limits during sex.

Surprisingly, there’s actually a simple trick you can use to make your partner more adventurous when things get hot in bed.

But before I reveal this trick to you, allow me to give you a quick rundown on a certain reaction that happens inside a woman’s body during sexual arousal and how you can use it to your advantage to make her wilder during lovemaking.

Unlike guys that can easily get ready for sex at the drop of a hat, women need to be stimulated psychologically to really get them going in bed. This simply means that unless you make your lover anticipate for it, chances are she won’t be that eager to have a lovemaking session with you.

So is the possibility that you’ll make her more sexually adventurous while at it.

See, the brain stimulates the endocrine glands to produce and release mood-altering hormones like oxytocin that cause key changes in a woman’s body to get her ready for sex. Besides making your partner sufficiently lubricated down there for sexual penetration, these hormones also make her erogenous zones like the clitoris and nipples extra sensitive.

And now while this may sound surprising, these mood-altering hormones can still do more if you just know how to influence them, including making your lover more adventurous in bed.

Now here’s the trick I said I’d share with you…

Let me start things off by saying that words are more powerful than you think during lovemaking.

Interestingly, one simple way of unleashing the sexual tiger in your partner is by making her feel she’s completely in control of your lovemaking session. And the easiest way to do this is by encouraging her with empowering words. Telling her she has the ability to take her sexual limits to a whole new level is more effective than you think.

At its simplest, you’re basically allowing your lover’s brain to produce a type of hormone called cortisol.

Sure you may have heard about cortisol as a hormone that gets released to set off a fight-or-flight response whenever the brain thinks the body is in danger, but it is also given off by the endocrine glands to boost confidence levels.

The effect of cortisol to a woman simply depends on how much of the hormone is released at a given time.

Now while excessive amounts of it can trigger the fight-or-flight response I pointed out earlier, having just the right levels can help take away her being timid when it comes to trying new stuff in the bedroom.

The idea here is to make your partner feel confident enough to take on new things you’ve never tried in bed before. Keep in mind that in order to pull this off, you have to give her the impression that she’s calling all the shots during sex.

Besides getting to decide which positions to go for, she also has to have the upper hand when it comes to foreplay. Although this may sound like a lot of getting used to, it can also be your ticket to unleashing the tiger in her between the sheets.

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