Why You Should Listen To Your Date Intently
While checking out my emails this morning, I came across a message from a regular AdviceForHim.com reader asking if I could share a dating secret that could help him improve his chances of scoring a second date with a woman he likes.
Well, when it comes to boosting your chances of taking out a woman you’re really attracted to the second time around, I’ve learned that making it a point to listen to her intently during your date really helps a lot.
Let me explain what I mean…
While I was delving into the finer points of female psychology a few years back, I read an article in a medical journal which said that listening is a very important element if you’re looking to establish a connection with a woman.
Besides making your date feel that you genuinely care for her, listening to her intently when you two go out also induces a few notable changes in her body that can easily make or break your chances of making her say yes to a second date.
Here’s a quick rundown on what these changes are and how they can affect the possibility that you’ll take out the woman you’ve got your eye on again…
When a woman feels that you’re sincerely listening to what she’s saying, her brain releases increased amounts of mood-altering hormones called serotonin. Besides raising your date’s happiness levels, serotonin also significantly reduces her predisposition to anxiety, which can hinder her from communicating with you properly.
And communication plays a key role in the success of convincing a woman to go on a second date with you.
If she thinks you’re a lousy communicator, you can say goodbye to your chances of taking her out again anytime soon. Just imagine the importance of giving her that extra dose of serotonin when she’s with you.
Now we’ve that got covered, here’s a simple trick that you can use to ensure that she’s going to get that serotonin boost when you two go on a date…
Turn off your mobile phone.
If you’re anything like most men, you probably check your phone every few minutes to see if you’ve got a text message or a new social media notification. While this may not be a big deal to you, but this can be extremely annoying and stressful to your date.
And don’t even try to just switch it to silent to avoid temptation.
Let your date feel that she is your only focus. Give her the notion that she has all your attention. When she feels that you’re all ears, you’re guaranteed that she will have that extra boost of serotonin easily.
(And here is a trick to get her down on you easily.)