How To Know If She's Really Enjoying Oral Sex

How To Know If She’s Really Enjoying Oral Sex

Now while I don’t mean this as something offensive, this is something you may need to hear…

Just because your lover is thrashing wildly and screaming loudly when you go down on her does not mean she is necessarily getting the oral sex satisfaction that she wants.

Sure you may already know the spots that she wants to have stimulated as well as the cunnilingus techniques that she likes, but it’s still not a guarantee for you that she’s enjoying the whole experience.

Luckily, I came across an interesting piece of information while delving into female sexuality that can easily help you differentiate if you are really getting your partner going while giving her oral sex or if she’s just giving you a show.

You simply have to keep an eye on her vulva. Although this may sound a bit odd right now, it’ll all add up when you follow along. Let me explain what I mean…

See, the vulva is one of the parts of the female anatomy that only moves involuntarily. Unlike her arms and legs that your lover can change positions whenever she wants, the vulva can only do so if her body instructs it to.

The muscles in the vulva only move when there are certain mood-altering hormones released in the brain. Besides increasing the blood flow to the genitals, these hormones also boost the sensitivity of the nerve endings that line the vulva, including the vagina and clitoris.

When these erogenous zones are stimulated properly, the brain keeps on releasing these hormones until there comes a time when the nerve endings in your lover’s genitals gets an overload of them and induces a series of brief muscular spasms that can last for about ten to fifteen seconds.

And when this happens, the vulva tightens and relaxes continuously, giving it a trembling appearance. Interestingly, if you were to sexually penetrate your lover during this state, you will have the sensation that your penis is being “sucked” into her vagina.

What’s really amazing about this is the fact that these spasms can’t be faked by your partner. They only happen if her brain is releasing significant amounts of pleasure hormones during oral sex. This means that you will be able to tell if she’s really enjoying the cunnilingus you are giving her.

So the next time you’re going down on your lover, make it a point to check on her vulva from time to time. If you notice that it’s pulsating, you’re definitely on the right track.

(And you should keep this in mind when you’re fingering her.)

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