Why She Doesn't Seem To Enjoy Cunnilingus Anymore

Why She Doesn’t Seem To Enjoy Cunnilingus Anymore

So here’s the scenario…

You and your lover get frisky in the bedroom. One thing leads to another and you find yourself giving her oral sex. However, you notice that she doesn’t seem to be enjoying cunnilingus anywhere near as much compared to previous occasions.

Well, there’s no need to worry just yet. Something I came across while delving into the female psychology might help you get your partner screaming and moaning like crazy again the next time you engage in oral sex.

According to a research conducted by the Meyer Center for Gender Studies, the female brain has the ability to “take note” of pleasurable feelings during lovemaking, including oral sex.

Besides mapping out the places that give a woman the most sexual satisfaction, the brain also “records” the pleasurable sensations that she experiences so it can easily identify them when her body goes through them again.

Now while this helps a woman distinguish which specific spots on her genitals, particularly the vagina and clitoris, can really get her off during oral sex, this also means that the brain can also cancel out the pleasurable feelings she gets from them if they’re stimulated the same way over and over.

Let me explain what I mean…

Based on the data the researchers gathered from the study’s participants, which are women between the ages of 23 to 45 who admitted to engaging in cunnilingus every time they had sex with their lovers, they found that the respondents who had the most pleasurable oral sex were the ones whose partners stimulated them differently each time during the act.

Although the same erogenous zones were stimulated, the respondents whose partners used identical techniques during oral sex did not experience the same levels of pleasure compared to their counterparts because they seemed to know how they would feel even before they began cunnilingus.

The bottom line is while they may still find oral sex pleasurable, they don’t enjoy it as much like other women.

Here’s one strategy I recommend if you’re looking to keep on leaving your lover breathless and extremely pleasured when you go down on her…

Use sensations and movements that are opposite to what your lover is expecting when you give her oral sex.

While this may not sound that ground-breaking, this can trick the brain into thinking that you’re stimulating your lover differently each time you perform cunnilingus on her. So here’s one simple way how you can pull this off…

If she expects her clitoris to be licked and inner labia to be stimulated by the finger, do it the other way around. Now while you’re basically stimulating the same erogenous zones, you’re giving your partner different sensations and movements while at it.

Try this one the next time things get hot in the bedroom with your lover and I’ll bet you’ll be very surprised with the results.

Now here’s why you should kiss her passionately each time you have the chance.


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