How To Get Her Excited To Try Anal Sex
I got an e-mail yesterday afternoon from a regular AdviceForHim reader. And he wanted to know if there was a way to convince his lover to try anal sex.
Now fortunately there is a simple trick you can use to get your partner all fired up to try anal sex. However, it requires a lot of patience and determination to pull it off successfully. Let me explain what I mean…
If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably fantasized about anal sex many times. Chances are you’ve already imagined the amazing sensations you’ll experience when you try it…
The only challenge is your partner isn’t that too excited to try anal sex. She thinks it’s painful, disgusting and even demeaning as a woman. Moreover, chances are your lover will also think that you’re selfish because she has the notion that you’re the only one getting pleasured during anal sex.
Now while you may be on the verge of giving up on getting her to say yes to anal sex, I’ve got one very cool thing about female sexual arousal I’d like to share with you…
And that is to get her mind racing. Now it may not make much sense right now, but it will all add up when you follow along.
See, positively teasing your plays a key role in making her completely sexually aroused. Getting her mind racing is also a necessity if you’re looking to convince her to try new things during lovemaking like anal sex.
Simply forcing your partner into it will just end in disaster because she needs to be totally relaxed or else her anus will stay tense the whole time. So here’s the trick I promised you earlier…
The next time you and your lover are having foreplay, include the anus in your list of erogenous zones to stimulate. Don’t worry if she thinks it’s a bit awkward at first. Just keep on caressing and stimulating her anal region as if it’s a regular part of your foreplay moves.
Over time, try to take things up a notch like kissing her butt cheeks and stroking the edges of her anus with your fingers. Make her feel that while the sensations they give her may be weird at first, they’re all pleasurable.
Keep in mind to increase the intensity of your anal stimulation bit by bit when you make love. Get her acclimatized to the feeling that her anus is vigorously pleasured when you’re heating things up for sex. You have to basically get her used to the idea that anal sex is fun and exciting and that there’s nothing’s wrong with it.
And when the time is right, you won’t have any difficulty asking her for full on anal sex. It’s even possible that she’ll be the one asking you do stick it in if you play your cards right.
Just remember to load up on enough water-based lubricant to make sure you give her maximum pleasure.