One Simple Trick To Make Her The One To Initiate Sex
If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably felt from time to time that your lover isn’t as excited to jump in bed with you as she used to be. And I bet you’ve also wished that she would initiate sex more often than she does as well.
However, what if I told you that there’s one simple trick you can use to get your lover yearning for you in the bedroom? I know this might sound too good to be true but let me explain…
Before I reveal it to you, let me give you a quick rundown on how a woman’s mind works during sexual arousal…
While men and women pretty much share the same key factors that can affect their ability to get sexually aroused like overall fitness, diet, self-confidence as well as stress and anxiety levels, there is one very crucial attribute women have that men don’t when it comes to getting ready for sex.
They have the need to anticipate lovemaking to really get them going before they’re 100% ready for sex.
See, guys mainly rely on visual cues to get in the mood for sex. This simply means that a man only has to see something provocative to become sexually aroused. This can be anything from getting a look at some nice lingerie to eyeful slight glance of their naked lover.
On the other hand, women predominantly need more significant emotional and psychological stimulation to achieve the same. They need to have their thoughts racing first before they can totally get in the mood for lovemaking.
Sure stimulating pleasure zones like the breasts and clitoris can still help them build up their sexual arousal, but without any psychological stimulation the whole process can take a whole lot longer.
So now for the trick I promised you about…
Although I told you that this one was simple, it can take a lot of patience and self-control to pull off successfully.
Here’s how you do it…
The next time things get hot in the bedroom, extend foreplay for as long as you can. Kiss your lover on the places that you know will get her going in bed like the nipples, inner thighs and back of the neck. Caress her all over passionately.
Keep this going until she’s so excited for sex that she begins asking you to penetrate her.
Now here’s the tough part. When you feel that your partner can’t take it anymore, give her oral sex and stop everything when she’s achieved orgasm. Keep in mind not give in even if she begs to be sexually penetrated. No matter how much she pleads, simply tell her you’re saving it for later.
While this may sound cruel and rather displeasing on your part, deliberately making your partner miss out on sexual penetration has a very powerful impact. After you do this she’ll begin to anticipate sex from you 10x more than she ever has. And chances are she won’t be wasting any time getting you back in bed to attend to unfinished business.