One Weird Reason Why You Always Come Too Soon

One Weird Reason Why You Always Come Too Soon

If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably experienced some form of premature ejaculation more often than you’d have liked to during sex. Besides being embarrassing, when it happens it also saps away your sexual confidence which can in turn lead to more and more bouts of premature ejaculation.

Now the good news is that premature ejaculation is not something that’s permanent. Let me explain why…

During my years of research on finding ways how to last long in bed, I came across a book about the male psychology that gave me a lot of insightful information as to why some men seem to ejaculate only after a few seconds of sexual penetration.

See, unlike what most guys think, all men have the ability to last anywhere from 15 to 45 minutes in bed. Some just disrupt this ability because of one very simple thing…

They tend to finish masturbate too quickly.

Let me explain what I mean…

Self-stimulation is for most guys our very first sexual experience. We usually discover it when we go through puberty or even earlier in some cases. Apart from letting us experience the pleasure of exciting the sensitive nerve endings that line the penis, it also gives us the satisfaction of achieving orgasm.

However, many of us tend to view masturbation as something sinful while growing up. Instead of thinking of it as a natural way to relieve stress and improve our mood, self-stimulation is commonly viewed as a guilty pleasure.

Some old wives’ tales even warn that regular masturbation can cause blindness, hairy palms and other horrible effects in the long run. And this is where the problem starts.

If you’re anything like most guys, you probably want to finish up quickly when masturbating. This is because you always have the subconscious thought that you might get caught in the act, therefore if you do it more quickly you’ll be less likely to get caught. And after doing this enough times, eventually your mind and body develops a routine where every time the sensitive nerve endings of your penis are stimulated, you orgasm quickly…which unfortunately includes sex as well.

And unless you change this routine, you’re at risk of coming too quickly every time you and your lover have sex.

So, here’s the simple solution…

The next time you masturbate, do it slower. I know this may sound like it’ll make it boring and less satisfying, but what it will do is rewire the way your brain and body reacts when it comes to achieving orgasm. Make this simple change and soon you’ll be lasting a lot longer in bed.

(And here’s how you can make sex interesting again after years of marriage.)


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