Why Your Lover Isn't Enjoying Your Massages

Why Your Lover Isn’t Enjoying Your Massages

I’ve always thought that massages are awesome. Besides being a great way to make a woman feel extremely relaxed, you can also use it as a great technique to heat things up in the bedroom.

However, there’s a lot more to a good massage than most guys realize…

A lot of guys think that giving a woman a massage is just all about kneading their fingertips all over her body.

Now while stimulating her muscles properly is a key factor when it comes to making a massage successful, there is one very important element that you should always keep in mind or else you’ll never be able to give your lover the pleasurable sensations that she’s always wanted.

And this is setting the perfect mood for a massage.

Let me explain what I mean…

Unlike guys that are mentally wired to benefit from physical stimulation at the drop of a hat, women need to be eased into it bit by bit to really appreciate it. Take sexual arousal for example. While men can get ready for lovemaking in an instant, it takes much longer for women to do the same.

This is also what happens when you massage a woman without setting the mood first. Although she might feel the stimulation from your fingertips, there is a big chance that she won’t get any real enjoyment from it no matter how hard you try.

Unless you set the mood right, chances are she will simply feel that you’re just pressing your fingers on her.

To set the perfect mood start things off by cleaning and organizing the place you’re planning to give her a massage.

Making sure that you remove clutter and get rid of dust not only lets a woman know that you’ve got everything taken care of, but it also gives her the impression that you want to give her a massaging experience that she won’t forget anytime soon.

This is also an effective strategy to spark her interest in getting between the sheets. Now while this may sound a bit crazy, women get sexually aroused a lot faster if they think that a room’s spotless and there is no random stuff laying around on the floor.

Now, I still have several other highly effective ways to warm up your lover in bed, but we’ll just save them for another time.


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