Why Confidence Draws Women To You

Why Confidence Draws Women To You

Now while so-called pickup artists claim that attracting beautiful women is as all about dressing up extravagantly and memorizing lines, drawing women to you is simply impossible if you’re not confident.

A lot of guys mistakenly think that the only way to attract beautiful women is by looking like a movie star. And although sending out the right visual and nasal cues is one way to make the ladies look in your direction, being confident trumps looks by a massive margin.

Let me explain what I mean…

Women are simply sticklers for guys who are confident. They are emotionally wired to think of confident men as a person of worth. Besides automatically thinking that they are a catch, women also feel that confidence is an indicator of charisma, strength and intelligence.

This explains why you’ll often see guys not as good-looking as you are but are loaded with confidence always walking off with attractive women.

What’s really interesting though is that women have the uncanny ability to know if a man is just faking confidence. They can determine if you’re the real deal or simply putting on a mask. So if you’re looking to become confident around the opposite sex, rather than just trying to fake it, here are a few pointers that you should keep in mind…

Patience is a virtue.

Becoming truly confident around women is a process. It’s not something that you can learn overnight. There are no shortcuts and the whole thing can be extremely tough. What makes it even more challenging is that you can only improve your confidence levels bit by bit each day.

Learning how to be genuinely confident is primarily about improving yourself as a person. It isn’t just about knowing how to look and smell better. It mainly focuses on developing your assets as a person and using them to your advantage when socializing with women. Sure the journey may be difficult, but getting there is absolutely worth it.

Pay closer attention to your hygiene.

As I have pointed out earlier, how you look and smell to women greatly matters if you’re looking to become more confident. Make regular showers a part of your schedule. Always brush and floss your teeth after meals. Use deodorant daily. Dress like a million bucks. You basically have to show women that you’re a catch they don’t want to miss out on.

Now while this may sound surprising, your overall hygiene can either make or break your chances of becoming truly confident. Men who have impeccable hygiene always score a lot of points in the charm department since they can easily project a pleasant and friendly aura almost instantly.

Know your strong points.

A lot of guys fail to become genuinely confident around women because they underestimate themselves. They mistakenly think that other men are just way too good looking or smarter than them in terms of attraction. Although you may not be fully aware of it, you have unique assets that can draw women to you if you just take the time to develop them.

Whether it’s writing love poems or playing the guitar, find out what your assets are and improve them. Chances are that many women are turned on by them and you don’t even realize it.

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