Mistakes That Make Oral Sex Horrible

Mistakes That Make Oral Sex Horrible

A lot of guys think that they’ve got oral sex in the bag. They believe that zeroing in on the clitoris when they go down on their lovers is all they need to know to give them mind-blowing orgasms.

Well, unfortunately, it’s really not as simple as that.

So today I want to show you how to really take her pleasure levels off the charts when you get down to business.

And the best way to do this is to avoid the most common mistakes guys make when giving a woman oral sex…

Oral sex mistake #1: Not building up her sexual tension.

The biggest mistake a lot of guys make when giving oral sex is immediately yanking down their partners’ underwear to go down on them. Women are not wired to get sexually aroused at the drop of a hat like men are. So if you’re planning to really give her unforgettable oral sex, you’ve got to make her want it bad.

Rather than instantly pleasuring your lover’s vagina and clitoris the next time things get hot in the bedroom, make it a point to warm her up properly by stimulating her other erogenous zones first like the breasts, inner thighs, neck and back of the ears. While diving in as soon as you get the chance may be tempting, there’s a big possibility that she won’t be as ready and prepared to orgasm compared to if you take your time.

Oral sex mistake #2: Changing speed and intensity all of a sudden.

If you’re anything like most men, you probably think that you should speed things up or make your stimulation harder when your lover starts to groan and moan uncontrollably during oral sex. However, this is not the way it usually works. Suddenly changing your speed or intensity can actually reduce the pleasure your partner will get.

When you hear your lover start to sound like a wildcat when you’re getting the job done, just keep on going as you are. Don’t look for a new spot to stimulate either. Focusing on a specific area allows your partner to feel the sensations even better, which makes reaching orgasm easy for her.

Oral sex mistake #3: Not asking her what she wants.

Communication plays a big role during oral sex. Most men simply do their thing when they go down on their lovers, not even bothering to ask how they really want to be pleasured below. If you’re lucky, you can hit your partner’s sweet spot and give her an orgasm. If not, it could only lead to disappointment on her part.

Make an effort to talk to your partner the next time you go down on her. Ask her what she really wants to experience. Get her feedback on the intensity of the stimulation you are giving. Ask her about the things she wants to try, too. Allow her to call the shots and you’ll soon be able to easily give her orgasm after orgasm. (Now here are a few tips on getting rock hard naturally.)

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