How To Know If Your Ex-Girlfriend Doesn’t Want To Get Back With You
Let me give you the cold reality up front. Now while it’s possible in some situations to rekindle a romantic relationship with your ex-girlfriend, there will also be situations when it won’t be possible no matter how hard you try.
So if you’re still doing your best to get back into a relationship with your old flame, but can’t seem to get the results that you want, here are a few pointers on how to know if she doesn’t want to get back with you and you’ll be better off finding a different girlfriend…
Tip #1: Your ex-girlfriend has a new phone number.
Whether it’s her mobile or house phone, a new number means that your ex-girlfriend is trying to make a fresh start. It implies that she has finally got over you romantically and is ready to mingle with other guys.
Never try contacting your ex in a rush intending to get back with her in a relationship, especially if she doesn’t inform you that she has a new number. You’ll only succeed in making her feel that you’re stalking her and will become more anxious to keep in touch with you, even as a friend.
Tip #2: She doesn’t hang around the same places anymore.
Not finding your ex-girlfriend in the usual bars or restaurants that she hangs around is easily a sign that she wants to be left alone. It also means that she doesn’t want to bump into you or any mutual friends of yours anytime soon.
It’s never a good idea to just start scoping around town looking for your ex-girlfriend. Besides making you look desperate, she’ll also see you as someone who’s very annoying. Just follow her lead and look for new places to hang out. There’s a very big chance that you could find your next special someone while you’re at it.
Tip #3: You don’t see her online.
Not seeing her as active online as before is a straightforward sign that she’s in the process of getting over you or is already establishing a new romantic relationship. If she’s not as visible on Twitter, Facebook or any other social media network where she always used to update regularly, then it means that she doesn’t want you to suddenly send her a private message asking her how she’s doing.
Tip #4: Your ex-girlfriend has new hobbies and interests.
Breakups are really tough, especially for women. If you learn that your ex is into something that she didn’t even show the slightest interest about when you two were still together, then it simply means that she wants to be as distracted as she can so she won’t think of you for a while.
Don’t get discouraged if she’s already past the point of getting over you. As I have pointed out earlier, just follow her lead and explore new hobbies and interests yourself. Perhaps they can help you meet a new woman to love faster than you expect.
(Are you still having trouble making women look your way no matter how hard you try? Here are a few possible reasons why attractive women aren’t finding you interesting.)