How To Start (And Maintain) A Nice Conversation With A Woman

How To Start (And Maintain) A Nice Conversation With A Woman

A lot of guys mistakenly think that simply having an interesting story or funny joke is enough to earn them a meaningful conversation with a woman they like. Although having the gift of gab is definitely an advantage when talking with women, there are other important things to consider to successfully pull it off.

Now even if you think that you already know the essentials of starting and maintaining a meaningful conversation with a woman, there’s always a chance that there’s room for improvement. So if you’re looking to dazzle her when you strike up a chat, here are the things you need to keep in mind…

Be confident and feel worthy of her.

Confidence plays a key role in having a meaningful conversation with the ladies. Having a lack of confidence and setting low expectations for yourself makes her feel that she’ll only have a lousy time talking with you. And if you do get a chance to chat with her, you’ll already be fighting a losing battle with yourself.

Becoming more confident isn’t as complicated as you think. Besides paying close attention to how you look and smell, it’s also a good idea to avoid pretending that you know more than you do since women have an uncanny ability to recognize if you’re just taking them for a ride.

And no matter what you do, always avoid coming on too strong or else you’ll instantly ruin your chances of talking to her. (Chances are she is also experiencing stress as well. These are the things women usually worry about on a first date.)

Instead value yourself and appreciate what you love about yourself.  When you start doing this you’ll start wanting women to impress you, instead of the other way around.

Go for trivial subjects.

Unlike what most men think, you don’t have to discuss rocket science or some other technical stuff to have a meaningful conversation with a woman. As I pointed out earlier, pretending that you know something you really don’t is a major turn-off for women.

When starting out, make it a point to chat about trivial subjects when talking with a woman. Ask her about her favorite book or what kind of movies she really likes. Find out what her preferred weekend activities are and if she likes going to the beach. Just keep the conversation as simple as you can. You’ll be very surprised how meaningful it will turn out eventually.

Be a good listener.

Women have a soft spot for men who know how to listen intently. By doing it you let her know that you value her time and ideas if you listen to her without interrupting. Plus, it also allows you to learn a lot about her easily.

Now while you can expect that there will be times that the things she’ll be discussing about will not be that remarkable for you, just hang in there. Once she feels that you’re easy to talk with, you’re guaranteed to score another chat and a possible date sooner than you think.



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