A Few Pointers On Spicing Things Up In Bed

A Few Pointers On Spicing Things Up In Bed

If you can’t remember the last time you and your lover got between the sheets you may have a serious problem in your hands. Apart from facing the possibility that your partner has significantly lost her sex drive, missing out on lovemaking is definitely one of the most frustrating things that can ever happen to you.

Unless you actually want to live out the rest of your life sex-free, then you’ve got to solve this issue as soon as you can. Here are the things you need to keep in mind to make your bedroom the ultimate lovemaking destination again…

Firstly, you’ve got to do a bit of redecorating.

No matter how inviting your bedroom is for sex, there will come a time when it will become rather drab and boring especially to your lover. If you notice that she isn’t as interested in making love these days, then maybe it’s time you gave your bedroom a makeover.

All you have to do is change up how your bedroom looks and feels to improve its ambiance for sex. Start things off by buying new pillows and blankets. Incorporating new furniture and accessories is a smart move as well. And to take things up a notch, you can also repaint your bedroom for a more dramatic mood.

Secondly, make sex something unpredictable.

Now while you may have your preferred time for getting between the sheets with your partner, turning the whole thing into a routine can easily stave off her sex drive. Sticking to a schedule won’t just take away your lover’s sexual excitement but also greatly decreases the pleasure she gets from it, too.

If you regularly do it during mornings, then make love during the evenings for a change. If you’re always up for sex during night time, then surprise her with a quickie before breakfast. Simply keeping her excited is an effective way to make her look forward for lovemaking.

Thirdly, explore new ways of teasing her sexually.

As I have pointed out earlier, women can easily get tired of sexual routines over time. It’s really important that you change up your style on a regular basis to keep your lover on her toes when it comes to sex.

Make it a point to discover new ways of warming her up in bed. This could be through improving your kissing technique or learning how to give her a nice massage. Either way you’re definitely going to make things steamy in the bedroom once you begin improving and re-inventing your love making skills. (How about discovering¬†how to really stimulate her breasts properly?)


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