How To Boost Your Chances Of Convincing Her To Try Anal Sex

How To Boost Your Chances Of Convincing Her To Try Anal Sex

If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably fantasized about having anal sex with your lover at least once or twice. The only problem is that some women just don’t like the idea of it.

However, this doesn’t mean that you can’t persuade her to try it and enjoy it. You just have to know a few very important pointers to successfully convince her to give anal sex a try.

Use positive psychology.

The majority of women steer clear of anal sex because of the anticipation of pain, discomfort and a general negative association to the idea of it. So if you’re looking to score some backdoor action with your lover, you have to begin by positively reinforcing the idea that anal sex is normal and enjoyed by millions of women.

Make sure you explain to your lover that anal sex can be a pleasurable experience for the both of you. Depending on just how opposed to the idea she is, building a positive association to anal sex is probably going to be an ongoing process and not something that’s done in one conversation.  Therefore be prepared to reinforce the idea on a regular basis.

Don’t rush her into it.

A lot of guys fail at convincing their lovers to try anal sex because instead of making her want it they just try to sneak their penis inside their partner’s anus during sex. Apart from being very rude and uncomfortable for her, this strategy is likely to fail and will often completely ruin the sexual mood.

Just like regular vaginal sex, anal sex also requires a preparation to make it a pleasurable experience for her. It‘s rarely something that can be done at the drop of a hat. You can start enticing your lover to give anal sex a go by including her anus when stimulating her erogenous zones.

Just remember to be extra gentle when starting out because if you do anything that causes her discomfort she could cross off anal sex from her checklist forever. Also don’t forget to have lots of water-based lubrication ready in case she says yes when you least expect it. (Discover the possible reasons why she isn’t too keen on having sex with you these days.)

It always pays to be a gentleman.

Barking orders like a drill sergeant will get you nowhere when it comes to convincing your lover to try anal sex. Keep in mind to be calm and affectionate with her no matter what. Like what I’ve told you earlier, positive reinforcement is an absolute priority and you can instantly break your chances of having anal sex if you give her the feeling that she’s not going to enjoy it.

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