Why You’re Not Winning Your Ex-Girlfriend Back
A lot of men believe that convincing their ex-girlfriends to get back with them is a huge challenge…
However, while winning back the heart of an old flame may feel complicated at first, knowing a few key pointers can easily help you pull it off. Let me explain what I mean…
Firstly, you need to give her space.
Breakups are very tough for women and immediately asking your ex-girlfriend to get back with you is perhaps the biggest mistake that you could make. To successfully start off the reconciliation process, giving her ample time and space should be on top of your list.
This simply means that you should avoid contacting her as frequently as when you were still in the relationship with her. No matter how sincere your intentions may be, make sure you totally ease up on the calls and texts. Sending private messages on social media sites is not an exception either.
Secondly, evaluate yourself as the other half of the relationship.
You have to accept the fact that you screwed up as a boyfriend or else she wouldn’t have broken up with you in the first place. Make it a point to think about your role as the other half of the relationship. Start with the simplest factors. Were you a good boyfriend? Did you give her the love and affection that she deserved?
Evaluating yourself not only helps you pinpoint the problem areas that you need to improve on but also gives you an idea of how to make your relationship even better once you get back with your ex-girlfriend. If you still don’t know how to do this, just put yourself in your ex-girlfriend’s place and reflect.
Thirdly, apologize sincerely.
Saying sorry for any ways you may have hurt her as sincerely as you can is no doubt the most important thing that you need to do if you want to win back your ex-girlfriend. Apart from encouraging her to eventually forgive you, apologizing properly also makes her feel that you really want to make your relationship work.
Always remember that women have an uncanny ability to know if you’re not being authentic with them so make sure that you say sorry from the bottom of your heart…or else you could be struggling for a long time trying to get her back. (By the way, did you know that masturbation actually helps you become better in bed?)