Getting Your Ex-Girlfriend Back The Right Way
Winning your ex-girlfriend back can be a rather tricky affair. It is perhaps one of the most difficult challenges a guy can pull off. So if you’ve so far tried and failed, let me key you in on the things you need to take note of…
Make apology your top priority.
Some guys think that apologizing to their old flames just isn’t manly. Unfortunately forgiveness can’t be given unless it is asked for. If you’re looking to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, make it a point to apologize to her sincerely before even attempting to do anything else. Apologizing also eases the pain and resentment she feels towards you so better get right to it as soon as you can.
Listen to her side of the story.
Chances are you must have done something wrong if your ex-girlfriend broke up with you in the first place. Listening to her side of the story gives you the opportunity to put yourself in her shoes and realize why she fell out of love with you.
While this doesn’t automatically guarantee that you’ll be back together as a couple, the information you’ll get from it can help you improve your chances of getting back with her if you’re willing to change or at least nurture your future romantic relationships.
Give yourself an assessment.
If you could rate yourself as a boyfriend with 10 as the highest score and 1 as the lowest, what would it be? Assessing yourself is a great way to know your strengths and weaknesses as a boyfriend as well as having an idea of which elements need to be changed, improved or completely gotten rid of. (Don’t forget to keep clear from this simple mistake that could easily end a romantic relationship as well.)
Keep yourself from begging.
When it comes to winning back your ex-girlfriend, begging is the biggest mistake you could ever make. Apart from making you look desperate, she will see this as a sign of weakness…and the more you demonstrate weakness the less attracted to you she’ll be.
Begging will only make the whole thing much worse than it is already. Showing her than you can man up and take a breakup with dignity is something she will certainly admire.
Give her space.
Convincing an old flame to get back with you won’t be made faster by forcing her to communicate with you the way you did before when you were still in a romantic relationship. I’m not implying that you should avoid keeping in touch with her totally.
Just remember to ease up on the text messages and phone calls. This is also a great strategy to make her miss you unconsciously. If you play your cards right, chances are she’ll be the one contacting you.