How To Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back The Right Way
Winning your ex-girlfriend back can be a rather tricky affair.
It is perhaps one of the most challenging experiences a guy can go through (just like going through premature ejaculation when getting between the sheets). In case you’re still having trouble convincing your estranged lover to come back to you, let me key you in on the things you need to take note of…
Make apology your top priority.
Some guys think that apologizing to their old flames just isn’t manly. Unfortunately for them, forgiveness couldn’t be given unless it is asked. If you’re looking to get back together with your ex-girlfriend, make it a point to apologize to her sincerely before even attempting to do anything else. Apologizing also eases the pain and resentment she feels towards you so better get right to it as soon as you can.
Listen to her side of the story.
Chances are you must have done something wrong if an ex-girlfriend broke up with you in the first place. Listening to her side of the story gives you the opportunity to put yourself in her shoes and realize why she fell out of love with you. While this doesn’t automatically guarantee that you’ll be back together as a couple, the information you’ll get from it can help you nurture your future romantic relationships.
Give yourself an assessment.
If you can rate yourself as a boyfriend with 10 as the highest score and 1 as the lowest, what will it be? Assessing yourself is a great way to know your strengths and weaknesses as a boyfriend as well as having an idea which elements need to be changed, improved or completely gotten rid of.
Keep yourself from begging.
When it comes to winning back your ex-girlfriend, begging is absolutely the biggest mistake you will ever make. Apart from only making you look desperate, she will see this as a sign of weakness…and the more she won’t get back with you sooner than you would want to. You’ll only make the whole thing much worse as it is already. Showing her than you can man up and take a breakup with dignity is something she will certainly admire.
Give her space.
Convincing an old flame to get back with you won’t be made faster by forcing her to communicate with you the way you did before when you were still in a romantic relationship. I am not implying that you should avoid keeping in touch with her totally. Just remember to ease up on the text messages and phone calls while you’re at it. This is also a great strategy to make her miss you unconsciously. If you play your cards right, chances are she’ll be the one contacting you first sooner or later.