The Secret To Moving On After A Nasty Breakup

The Secret To Moving On After A Nasty Breakup

Let’s kick off this one by thinking about your worst breakup ever. If you’re anything like most men, you’ve probably gone through a lot of emotional hurt after breaking up with a woman you fell in love with.

While moving on after a terrible breakup comes naturally to some guys, most men have to go through a long transition phase of accepting that the relationship is over.  And as much as we hate to admit it, sometimes us guys can be just as sensitive as women.

But, there’s no need to worry just yet if you’re still affected by a breakup even if it happened a few months or even years back.

See, the problem is that the majority of us just don’t know the secret of how to move on after a terrible breakup…and it’s not as complicated as you think.

For starters, begin acknowledging that you have been hurt and accept the experience as a lesson.

In other words… most guys tend to tough it out after a breakup. They tell themselves everything’s OK when it’s not. They mask their true feelings and in the end, they feel very confused.

These guys believe that getting in touch with their emotions is not a manly thing to do so they bottle it all up. And since they don’t know how to release these feelings, they tend to feel hurt time and time again… and it ends up becoming a cycle that they become trapped in and never ends.  Don’t make this mistake yourself.

Secondly, most men don’t assess what went wrong in a failed relationship. We tend to think of a breakup as a random occurrence and not as a lesson to learn wisdom from. Guys that don’t learn from their past break-ups often end up making the same mistakes over and over again in new romantic relationships, eventually leading to more breakups in the future.  If you’ve had a bad break-up, be sure to ask yourself what went wrong so you don’t repeat it.

Thirdly, you have to remember that a breakup does not define you as a person. It doesn’t distinguish your character as a man or as a lover. Always remember that a past relationship is, just a past relationship. It’s pointless trying to change it. The best course of action to just move on. And no matter what you think, reliving a failed relationship is not going to make anything better.

Now here are a few pointers how to gain a woman’s trust to take your knowledge up a notch.

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