Are You Making this Mistake that Could Make Your Wife Leave You?

Are You Making this Mistake that Could Make Your Wife Leave You?

Your wife may have said “I do” at the altar but that alone doesn’t guarantee you a “happily ever after”. While your marriage may be smooth sailing for now, what you can’t afford to do is make this very big mistake that could drive your wife to leave you unexpectedly.

What’s the mistake I’m talking about?

Being boring.

Let me key you in on some important details why this seemingly insignificant thing could eventually ruin your marriage.

There comes a time in your marriage when everything becomes rather predictable. Whether it’s making love or having dinner together, everything just becomes a routine.

Unlike what most people think, the absence of thrill and excitement in your marriage is not a sign that your relationship is getting deeper. On the contrary, it is a sign that you two are slowly drifting apart.

Studies show that one of the reasons most married couples divorce is because the wives aren’t feeling the excitement that they have felt in the beginning of their marriage. They feel that their husbands aren’t putting enough time and effort into their relationship anymore.

So, let me ask you the hard question…

How about you? Can you confidently say that you are still putting enough time and effort in your marriage? If not, there’s no need to worry just yet, here are something you can immediately start doing to get your wife passionately excited about you…

Firstly, when was the last time you really paid attention to your appearance? Most men tend to let their looks and hygiene go off the wall as soon as they get married. They don’t try to look as nice when they were still dating with their wives.

If you seem to have become very partial to dressing down and growing a beard these days, take it as a cue to look like a million bucks to your wife again. Just because you’re married doesn’t mean that you have the right to get sloppy.

Secondly, have you ever thought about updating your lovemaking playbook? Sex can become very monotonous after years of marriage and your wife may not be enjoying your time between the sheets anymore.

Familiarity can be a very big downer when it comes to sex. Take time to talk to your spouse and ask her about her sexual desires and how you can both achieve them the next time you are making love. While you’re at it, learn some new ways to please her in bed so she’ll be always looking forward to your next sex session every time.

Thirdly, when was the last time you complimented her sincerely? You’ll be surprised how a positive compliment or two can transform your marriage for the better.  Make it a point to give her an admiring comment each day. Apart from making her feel that you still cherish her as your wife, you will also remember why you married her in the first place.

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