Why the Mind is a Great Ally in Avoiding Premature Ejaculation

Why the Mind is a Great Ally in Avoiding Premature Ejaculation

February 27, 2013  |  Last Longer In Bed

While this may surprise you, preventing premature ejaculation isn’t just about knowing the right positions or knowing when your arousal levels are off the charts.

If you’re looking to avoid premature ejaculation, knowing how to control the psychological factors that influence stamina in the bedroom is just as important.

Let me key you in on some important details and some misconceptions about preventing premature ejaculation…

#1 – Premature ejaculation is not a physical problem.

Most men tend to think that the reason why they are ejaculating quickly during sex is that their penises are just too sensitive. While there is some scientific evidence to this claim… which has found that the tissues that make up the penis are inherently reactive to the vagina’s interior, sensitivity alone does not control the ejaculation process in any way.

#2 – Premature ejaculation can’t be stopped with over-the-counter creams and pills.

You may have seen online ads about artificial creams and medications that claim to hold off premature ejaculation but chances are they’ll never work like advertised. No matter how magical they may claim to be, you will just end up coming sooner than you like on your next sex session.

#3 – Premature ejaculation can’t be prevented with just a change in the position.

Just changing from missionary to doggy style won’t keep premature ejaculation at bay. Although the slight break in the action will somewhat curb your urge to orgasm, it’s still not a guaranteed method to avoid coming too quickly.

Now that we’ve got the common misconceptions covered, let’s get to the reasons why the right mindset is the best way to stave off premature ejaculation:

Mental conditioning helps you relax more.

Visualizing that you’re going to give your wife or girlfriend the sexual satisfaction she wants before actually making love makes you more comfortable in bed. Thus, helping you last longer while at it.

Take it to the next level by making the experience all about her satisfaction and you will be surprised how resilient you’ll become against premature ejaculation.

Practice makes perfect.

Practicing visualizing yourself lasting longer in the bedroom each day is just like learning how to play the piano. The more you do it, the better you’ll become and the finer the results will be. Why not try this visualizing technique tonight and surprise your partner when you make love?

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