A Simple Trick To Make Your Date Connect With You Quicker

A Simple Trick To Make Your Date Connect With You Quicker

When it comes to first dates, I’m pretty sure that connecting with the woman you’re out with is one of the top priorities in your checklist.

Besides being one way of making her feel more relaxed and comfortable around you, your chances of convincing her to go on a date with you again will be boosted if you manage to pull it off.

But the thing is a lot of men mistakenly believe that getting the job done is following what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, which is busting out a pickup line or two to get things going.

Interestingly, I’ve learned during my extensive research into the female psychology that pickup lines rarely hit their mark. And that’s even if you think you’ve got the wittiest one up your sleeve.

However, I’ve also picked up a simple trick that you can use to make it easier to establish a connection with a woman during your first date. Make sure you follow along to find out what this is…

Now while we’ve previously discussed that making sure your overall grooming is up to par is key in terms of getting on your way to connect with your date, knowing how to break the ice properly also plays a crucial role when you’re looking to pull the whole thing off.

If you’re anything like most men, there is a big possibility that you think of “breaking the ice” as “putting your best foot forward,” which basically means you should try to impress her as much as you can the moment you utter your first sentence.

It isn’t uncommon that some guys resort to exaggerating stuff or even lying just to give the woman they’re on a first date with the notion that they’re smart and witty. I know this sounds surprising right now, but she has the uncanny ability to sense if you’re just taking her for a ride.

And you’ll just make her feel that you’re pretentious and trying too hard, which will almost immediately promote the release of stress hormones in her body, setting off a surge in her anxiety levels.

Now for the trick I was telling you about earlier…

The next time you’re on a first date and looking to establish a connection with the woman you’re out with, try asking a simple yet genuine open-ended question, one that can’t be answered with a “yes” or “no.”

There are actually a lot of ways to do this. You can start things off by asking her what phone app she uses most of the time or perhaps what kind of beverage she likes to sip on during a hot day.

Sure this trick may sound rather simplistic, but this style of questioning gives her the notion that you’re really interested about her and promotes the release of positive hormones in her body that are responsible for making her feel good at the same time.


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