A Simple Trick To Break The Ice During A First Date

A Simple Trick To Break The Ice During A First Date

While browsing through my inbox this morning, I came across a message from Gerald who shares that he’s finding it really tricky to break the ice when he goes out on a date with a woman for the first time.

Gerald adds that while he’s carefully rehearsed his lines over and over before meeting with his date, he simply finds himself either mumbling or totally speechless when he’s already trying to get a conversation going with her.

And all this will just lead to a rather awkward encounter that ends with less than favorable results sooner or later.

But the thing is, Gerald, you’re not the only one who’s going through this dating issue. There are also a lot of other guys who seem to have lost their tongues when they’re on a first date with a woman.

I experienced this dating problem as well so I made it a point to include it in the subjects that I delved on during my extensive research into the female psychology. And I discovered a technique that may help take your chances of getting a meaningful conversation going with a woman during a first date up a notch.

Let me explain what I mean…

Unlike what a lot of so-called “dating gurus” are saying, there are no magic formulas when it comes to breaking the ice during a first date.

I learned that pulling it off basically involves three key factors, namely delivery or the way you say your words, interest or the level of significance that the subject you’re looking to talk about with her and trust, which is what I’ll expound on shortly.

During my extensive research into the female psychology, I learned that making a woman feel that you trust her is a key factor when you’re looking to break the ice with her and get to know her better.

This is what’s called the “Benjamin Franklin Effect,” which gives your date the feeling that you’re on the same page and promotes the release of feel-good hormones in her body. And judging by their name, these hormones basically ease up the anxiety she has, which makes her feel more relaxed and sociable.

So here’s one way of pulling this off…

The next time you’re on a first date, keep in mind to ask her a small favor that gives her the notion that you trust her. It could be asking her to watch your things while you go the restroom or perhaps choosing the food and drink that you’re going to order during the same.



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